Stolen: A Memoir

Stolen: A Memoir

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  • Author:Elizabeth Gilpin
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Summary

In the vein of Know My Name and Unorthodox, debut author Elizabeth Gilpin grippingly chronicles her harrowing experience of psychological manipulation and abuse at a "therapeutic" boarding school for troubled teens, and how she was able to heal in the aftermath。

At fifteen, Elizabeth was an honor student, a state-ranked swimmer and a rising soccer star, but behind closed doors, her dysfunctional family was tearing her apart。 Growing angrier by the day, she began drinking to excess, missing practices, and acting out。 Her parents and school counselors deemed her impossible and petulant, and decided that Elizabeth needed a school program with strict behavioral limitations。 Her life was then ripped in two: the years before she was kidnapped in the middle of the night at the request of her parents, and everything that came after。


Officially, Carlbrook, the institution where she was held for two years, was a therapeutic boarding school for troubled teens。 In reality, it was more of a prison than a school, where children were known only by their number。 The staff was a group of under-qualified and unstable counselors who practiced a perverse form of pseudo-therapy on their charges。 Elizabeth was stripped of basic human rights, forced to participate in mismanaged group therapy sessions, and force fed when she wouldn't eat。


In STOLEN, Elizabeth chronicles the abuse she endured, the friends she lost to suicide and addiction, and, years later, the way she was finally able to pick up the pieces。

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Reviews

Janine Simonton

Thought provoking!

Traci Lopes

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it, click here。 The only complaint I have about this book is that I wish the chapters about the woods was shorter and her life after the school to be longer。 I cannot believe the things Elizabeth went through and no offence to her parents but my god- if I went through that type of mental abuse because I blew a guy and smoked some pot when I was fifteen I would NEVER forgive them。 It’s sad how many parents don’t know how to deal with the teenage years and resort to just abandoning their trouble teen。 I did find The only complaint I have about this book is that I wish the chapters about the woods was shorter and her life after the school to be longer。 I cannot believe the things Elizabeth went through and no offence to her parents but my god- if I went through that type of mental abuse because I blew a guy and smoked some pot when I was fifteen I would NEVER forgive them。 It’s sad how many parents don’t know how to deal with the teenage years and resort to just abandoning their trouble teen。 I did find the chapters to become a bit repetitive。 Overall a good read! Here comes some spoilers My dad used the threaten us when we were bad that he would drive us out to the woods, her parents basically did that, and she had to stay for over 100 days! I had to finish this book because I just kept thinking to myself that at one point the parents would come get her。 Nope, 100 days in the woods and like two years in that horrible school。 Poor thing。 Good exposure to what goes on。 。。。more

tobes

I Laughed, I Cried, I Had to Pretend I DiedI went to Carlbrook with Elizabeth and this book is basically perfect in my eyes。 It encapsulates the experience and feeling of the place so well, and she writes in such a clear and relatable voice。 I had so many feelings come up and I’m grateful for all of them。 This is assigned reading for my loved ones now。 Thank you, L。

Laura Nelson

Thank you to @grandcentralpub and Elizabeth Gilpin for a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review。"A gripping chronicle of psychological manipulation and abuse at a "therapeutic" boarding school for troubled teens, and how one young woman fought to heal in the aftermath。"Review: This is an incredibly insightful and heart breaking memoir showcasing the manipulation, abuse and truly horrific events teens suffered at therapeutic boarding schools, such as Carlbrook's。The auth Thank you to @grandcentralpub and Elizabeth Gilpin for a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review。"A gripping chronicle of psychological manipulation and abuse at a "therapeutic" boarding school for troubled teens, and how one young woman fought to heal in the aftermath。"Review: This is an incredibly insightful and heart breaking memoir showcasing the manipulation, abuse and truly horrific events teens suffered at therapeutic boarding schools, such as Carlbrook's。The author introduces the reader to the troubled teen industry, shedding light on the importance of mental health, and the challenges teens faced while struggling with addiction, suicidal ideation, abuse, trauma, depression and finding their identity。This novel is an emotional and eye-opening journey, as the author takes us through personal accounts of the traumatic experiences she faced within the industry, and the side effects of the abuse she endured following graduation。I truly could not stop reading this novel。 This book deserves so much recognition, a voice to be heard in bringing awareness to mental health and this industry。 Thank you Elizabeth for sharing your story。 I would absolutely recommend this read。 。。。more

Jeri

I listened to this book on Audible and it was very painful to get through。 I hope that any parent thinking of sending their teen to a camp would read this book at think twice。

Allison

Like getting punched in the gut with my own history。 Some of the details are different from my therapeutic boarding school, but a remarkable number of them are the same。 The CEDU schools varied less than I thought。 I’ve gotten used to thinking of my own history as sort of banal; that it was weird but that I escaped the true horrors of the TTI by going to one of the top-tier schools。 It’s jarring to read about exercises I did, songs I heard, and behaviors I was encouraged to do, and to see them l Like getting punched in the gut with my own history。 Some of the details are different from my therapeutic boarding school, but a remarkable number of them are the same。 The CEDU schools varied less than I thought。 I’ve gotten used to thinking of my own history as sort of banal; that it was weird but that I escaped the true horrors of the TTI by going to one of the top-tier schools。 It’s jarring to read about exercises I did, songs I heard, and behaviors I was encouraged to do, and to see them labeled as abuse。 I think I’ve coped by downplaying it, but I’m so, so glad that this book exists, to remind me that I wasn’t alone in my experiences and to shine a light on an industry that operates almost entirely in darkness。 。。。more

Nicole

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Jenn (burlingtonbibliophagist)

BOOK REVIEWStolen by Elizabeth GilpinA memoirMy stand on memoirs- Ones perspective and experience cannot be judged - it is through their own personal lens that the wordsThis read made me heartbroken。 For Elizabeth, for her friends who suffered along with her, for children with mental health issues that are told they need to be “fixed”, for the parents that may have thought they were doing the right thing。TaKe a moment to place yourself in Elizabeth’s shoes - not to understand, or judge but to li BOOK REVIEWStolen by Elizabeth GilpinA memoirMy stand on memoirs- Ones perspective and experience cannot be judged - it is through their own personal lens that the wordsThis read made me heartbroken。 For Elizabeth, for her friends who suffered along with her, for children with mental health issues that are told they need to be “fixed”, for the parents that may have thought they were doing the right thing。TaKe a moment to place yourself in Elizabeth’s shoes - not to understand, or judge but to listen- so her voice can be heard。 Thanks to @grandcentralpub for my copy in return for an honest review 。。。more

Jenna

💫 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧: 𝐀 𝐌𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐢𝐫 💫 ⁣𝘉𝘺 𝘌𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘢𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘩 𝘎𝘪𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯⁣𝘗𝘶𝘣𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘳: @grandcentralpub ⁣𝘗𝘶𝘣 𝘋𝘢𝘵𝘦: 𝘑𝘶𝘭𝘺 𝟸𝟶, 𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟷⁣⁣It reads like a fiction novel full of pain and tragedy in all forms。 No one won。 The parents who thought they were doing the right thing (𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘵𝘰𝘰 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮: 𝘧𝘦𝘭𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘥 𝘯𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦)。 The daughter who felt forgotten and filled with anger。 The siblings whose home life was affected by the process of everything that happened。 ⁣⁣This is a memoir that sat deep in my gut knowing 💫 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧: 𝐀 𝐌𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐢𝐫 💫 ⁣𝘉𝘺 𝘌𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘢𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘩 𝘎𝘪𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯⁣𝘗𝘶𝘣𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘳: @grandcentralpub ⁣𝘗𝘶𝘣 𝘋𝘢𝘵𝘦: 𝘑𝘶𝘭𝘺 𝟸𝟶, 𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟷⁣⁣It reads like a fiction novel full of pain and tragedy in all forms。 No one won。 The parents who thought they were doing the right thing (𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘵𝘰𝘰 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮: 𝘧𝘦𝘭𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘥 𝘯𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦)。 The daughter who felt forgotten and filled with anger。 The siblings whose home life was affected by the process of everything that happened。 ⁣⁣This is a memoir that sat deep in my gut knowing that what I was reading was truth。 Perhaps with the fog of depression through the pages。 But the underlying feeling was pain for Elizabeth。 ⁣⁣I caution anyone picking up the book with the triggers of abuse within a facility; as the author is very blunt with her experience within her “troubled kids centre”。 If you feel like it may be too much to read, then I would agree。 It was hard for me and I haven’t dealt with any of the levels of trauma she did。 ⁣⁣This book opened my eyes to what happened in so many “fix-it” centre’s。 But part of me was angry because I do not understand how any one thought in good conscience that tearing teens from their family and treating them no differently than working concentration camps (𝘺𝘦𝘱, 𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦’𝘴 𝘢 𝘓𝘖𝘛 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘭) would “solve” the problem。 ⁣⁣Perhaps the families were at wits end。 And I have no experience with that so I cannot speak to it。 All I hope is that with books like this we, collectively, understand that hidden pain or trauma needs to be dealt with with supports。 Not sent away。 Or traumatized out of。 ⁣⁣𝘚𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘦: 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘗𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘴 𝘏𝘪𝘭𝘵𝘰𝘯 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘢 𝘥𝘰𝘤𝘶𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘺 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘢𝘳。 𝘐 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘯 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘤𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘭。 ⁣⁣Bravo Elizabeth for speaking your truth。 ⁣⁣My heart hurts ⁣⁣ 。。。more

Coquille Fleur

I admire the courage it must have taken Elizabeth Gilpin to write this memoir。 Her story is raw and real, full of heartbreak, hopelessness and ultimately hope。 Gilpin exposes the troubled teen industry for the moneymaking, abusive, fucked up business model it truly is and shows through her own story how traumatizing these "therapeutic boarding schools" are for the kids that get locked away there。 Gilpin's voice is strong even as she writes about the brainwashing she endured at Carlbrook。 I like I admire the courage it must have taken Elizabeth Gilpin to write this memoir。 Her story is raw and real, full of heartbreak, hopelessness and ultimately hope。 Gilpin exposes the troubled teen industry for the moneymaking, abusive, fucked up business model it truly is and shows through her own story how traumatizing these "therapeutic boarding schools" are for the kids that get locked away there。 Gilpin's voice is strong even as she writes about the brainwashing she endured at Carlbrook。 I like how she balanced her story with just enough background on the Synanon Cult and CEDU to educate folks about the history of these programs without getting bogged down in too much explaining。 I also liked how she wrote about her life after Carlbrook and how messed up it was for so long。 It's sad how many of the kids that end up at these schools die soon after and how those that survive are plagued with PTSD for the rest of their lives。 One part that sort of bothered me, and this may sound silly, is that she describes an event at wilderness school where she was forced to eat green peppers and puked them up and a staff person was trying to force her to eat the puke。 Then the chapter just ended without going on to say what happened either way。 I know it might be triggering and maybe that's why she chose to stop there, but it almost bothers me more not knowing。 Anyway, it just goes to show how this memoir got under my skin, and that's a good thing。 The more people that share their experiences at these places, the more chance they can save others from the same fate。 。。。more

thereadingowlvina (Elvina Ulrich)

Synopsis: At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an excellent student with a promising future ahead of her。 But her undiagnosed depression caused her to act in disruptive ways。 In order to save her, her parents consulted an educational consultant who suggested a behavioral modification program。 It began with her being abducted in the middle of the night, and dropped off in the woods of Appalachia, and after three brutal months, she is transferred to Carlbrook School ("theraupeutic" boarding school Synopsis: At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an excellent student with a promising future ahead of her。 But her undiagnosed depression caused her to act in disruptive ways。 In order to save her, her parents consulted an educational consultant who suggested a behavioral modification program。 It began with her being abducted in the middle of the night, and dropped off in the woods of Appalachia, and after three brutal months, she is transferred to Carlbrook School ("theraupeutic" boarding school) where she endured more psychological torment and humiliation until her graduation。 My thoughts: This was a gripping and heartbreaking memoir and I truly appreciate the author sharing her story。 It was really an eye-opening one as I did not know such facilities exist, nor did I know about the lucrative "troubled teen" industry。 I do not know how such facilities can still operate without scrutiny from authorities。 I was totally invested in Elizabeth's story and finished this book in one sitting! Her writing was so engaging, honest and emotional。 The workshops and programs she endured were clearly not helping the students。 Instead, they caused so much more psychological issues even after they graduated。This was one compelling memoir and I am so glad to have read it! Pub。 Date: July 20th, 2021***Thank you Grand Central Publishing and author Elizabeth Gilpin for this gifted copy to read and review。*** 。。。more

Brynn | readyourworriesaway

It’s hard to come up with the words to describe what I just read。 I first learned about the “Troubled Teen Industry” a few months back when I heard a survivor’s story on a podcast。 I had no idea that these facilities even existed, and it is absolutely horrifying that they are still legal in some states。 According to Refinery29, it is estimated that 50,000 kids are forced into these facilities each year (mostly because their parents feel that they can’t “fix” their kid)。 At 15 years old Elizabeth It’s hard to come up with the words to describe what I just read。 I first learned about the “Troubled Teen Industry” a few months back when I heard a survivor’s story on a podcast。 I had no idea that these facilities even existed, and it is absolutely horrifying that they are still legal in some states。 According to Refinery29, it is estimated that 50,000 kids are forced into these facilities each year (mostly because their parents feel that they can’t “fix” their kid)。 At 15 years old Elizabeth was abducted from her bed in the middle of the night — and her parents were the ones who planned it。 They wanted her to be sent off to a “therapeutic boarding school” because she was often angry and began drinking more and more。 She spent three brutal months living in the woods of Appalachia, where her name was changed to a number, and where she was physically tested everyday on her will to survive。 From there she was sent to a boarding school in southern Virginia that felt like a prison。 The students were psychologically abused every day through group therapy sessions where they were humiliated and made to feel useless。 Elizabeth “graduated” when she was 18, but that didn’t mean her life went back to normal。 She left more angry than she was when she arrived。 Elizabeth was filled with trauma and horrific memories from her time at Carlbrook, in addition to losing friends to suicide and addiction。 Elizabeth Gilpin is beyond brave for facing her past in order to bring awareness to the “Troubled Teen Industry。” Her memoir will hopefully stop families from sending their children to these facilities, and give a voice to others that were emotionally and physically abused at the hands of these “therapeutic” boarding schools。 。。。more

Katie

The true story of how Elizabeth Gilpin was kidnapped from her room in the middle of the night and taken to a behavioral modification camp。 Her parents had enough of her raging anger, bad attitude, and excessive drinking。 Their solution was to enroll her in a place that would change everything and bring back their little girl。 This is the story of how Elizabeth endured a disturbing and unreal series of places all in the name of changing her life。 I read this entire book in one sitting。 While it's The true story of how Elizabeth Gilpin was kidnapped from her room in the middle of the night and taken to a behavioral modification camp。 Her parents had enough of her raging anger, bad attitude, and excessive drinking。 Their solution was to enroll her in a place that would change everything and bring back their little girl。 This is the story of how Elizabeth endured a disturbing and unreal series of places all in the name of changing her life。 I read this entire book in one sitting。 While it's not the most in-depth or well-written memoir of all time, it was gripping。 The story is mind blowing, and it's absolutely crazy to think this was happening not that long ago。 Gilpin's memories will have you in disbelief from start to finish。Thank you so much to Grand Central Publishing for the free review copy! 。。。more

Krista

I couldn’t put this memoir down。 Gilpin’s language is so straightforward and unadorned that the reality of the horrors she lived through are starkly rendered。 Her strength to survive is impressive。 The labor it must have taken to write this book is even more so。 Recommended for fans of Educated or The Glass Castle。NetGalley provided me with an arc in exchange for an honest review。

Tiffany

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for a DRC of this book。I've been in a memoir mood, and thought that the concept of this memoir looked interesting。 I had seen the reality TV shows about wilderness programs, where "troubled" teens were taken in the woods to learn how to be better people and had heard of "therapeutic" schools where these teens were ultimately sent in an effort to curb their "troublesome" behavior。 So Gilpin's memoir looked compelling。At the age of 15, Gilpin is living what Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for a DRC of this book。I've been in a memoir mood, and thought that the concept of this memoir looked interesting。 I had seen the reality TV shows about wilderness programs, where "troubled" teens were taken in the woods to learn how to be better people and had heard of "therapeutic" schools where these teens were ultimately sent in an effort to curb their "troublesome" behavior。 So Gilpin's memoir looked compelling。At the age of 15, Gilpin is living what sounds like a relatively normal teen life。 However, she pushes the boundaries and argues with her parents frequently than they would like。 Out of desperation, her parents decide to send her away。 They hire an escort company to essentially kidnap Gilpin out of her bed while she is sleeping and transport her to a wilderness program, where she has to live in the woods with other teenage girls until the program has deemed her reformed enough to be sent to a "therapeutic" high school。 There, the goal is not education but reformation。This memoir was, at times, painful to read。 Gilpin makes it clear that she was suffering from untreated mental health issues during the years before her kidnapping, which led to her acting out。 The trauma of the kidnapping, months in the wilderness program, and then years in the therapeutic high school brought was just horrible。 I ended up reading the last 75% of this book in one sitting。Overall, a compelling look at programs designed to help "troubled" youth from someone who experienced them。 Would recommend to anyone interested in these topics with the caveat that this is a memoir and as such one sided。 I am very much unread in this area, and can't speak to any sort of bias so I would recommend further reading。 。。。more

Jackson D。

An insightful and deeply moving book that I was unable to put down。 Having only a baseline knowledge of the troubled teen industry, I was taken aback by what the author outlined of her experience。 Ms。 Gilpin’s debut memoir displays not just incredible clarity of thought, but true bravery for the willingness to share the personal, gripping, and defining experiences that shape our lives。 The writing is eloquent and enthralling— a must-read。

Annabel

Elizabeth and I went through these programs together, so, of course, I relate to the experiences she describes in Stolen。 However, there are two things that I genuinely appreciate about this book: first, that she includes some of the more harrowing moments of our time there and, second, that she introduces the troubled teen industry as a whole。 This is a critical aspect of Stolen, as the troubled teen industry is not widely known, and our school is one among countless others。 For the general pub Elizabeth and I went through these programs together, so, of course, I relate to the experiences she describes in Stolen。 However, there are two things that I genuinely appreciate about this book: first, that she includes some of the more harrowing moments of our time there and, second, that she introduces the troubled teen industry as a whole。 This is a critical aspect of Stolen, as the troubled teen industry is not widely known, and our school is one among countless others。 For the general public, Stolen provides insight into an unregulated industry that deserves scrutiny。 For former students, it gives voice to our collective experiences in private programs like Carlbrook-stories that are often not told, and if they are, they are not believed。 。。。more

Anne

This was a well written book with an interesting and heartbreaking story。 The author tells some unimaginable truths and some of it is difficult to read, let alone live through。 All in all, it was a worthwhile book to read and the author did a good job getting her point across。

Christine Livinghouse

I loved this book!! The author writes with such clarity and colorful prose that I feel like I was right there with her as a youth enduring and persevering through the the many placement facilities and programs she was forced to reside in。 There is such horror as she recants her experiences and I rooted for her every step of the way as she let us in on her thoughts through many of the incidents of abuse。 If you have a child and if you have ever thought of 'sending them somewhere to make a differe I loved this book!! The author writes with such clarity and colorful prose that I feel like I was right there with her as a youth enduring and persevering through the the many placement facilities and programs she was forced to reside in。 There is such horror as she recants her experiences and I rooted for her every step of the way as she let us in on her thoughts through many of the incidents of abuse。 If you have a child and if you have ever thought of 'sending them somewhere to make a difference'。。。Don't。 。。。more

Melanie Gordon

Thank you to @grandcentralpub @netgallery for my gifted eARC!I have a lot of respect for the author for writing this book and speaking the truth surrounding her experiences-as I know it must have been hard to do and relive。 I also went through similar experiences being sent to a wilderness camp and an all girls boarding school during my high school years, so I could really relate to the author。With that being said, the writing lacked something for me-it did not pull me in as I was hoping it woul Thank you to @grandcentralpub @netgallery for my gifted eARC!I have a lot of respect for the author for writing this book and speaking the truth surrounding her experiences-as I know it must have been hard to do and relive。 I also went through similar experiences being sent to a wilderness camp and an all girls boarding school during my high school years, so I could really relate to the author。With that being said, the writing lacked something for me-it did not pull me in as I was hoping it would and kind of jumped all over the place。 I also feel like it was really long and drawn out, some parts could have been cut out or shortened。 However, I do feel that it is worth the read because it is an eye opening account of the truth behind facilities like this and the mental, physical, psychological, and emotional damage places like these have on teenagers。 What the author experienced was horrific, and I definitely get for her and my experience was somewhat relatable。 Overall, the book was a bit scattered and lacked that something that pulls me 。。。more

Gayle Spitz

Stolen is a phenomenal debut memoir from Ms。 Elizabeth Gilpin。 This book is a cautionary tale for any family exploring the possibility of sending a teenager to a wilderness bootcamp or a therapeutic boarding school。 It is very honest, brave and beautifully written。 A balanced, compelling and important piece of work。

Andrea Rauch

Overall Impression: Wow, this memoir reads like fiction, to the point that I keep forgetting that is really happened。 Stolen is a memoir written by Elizabeth Gilpin about her “troubled teen” years。 Elizabeth was torn out of bed in the middle of the night and brought to a camp for troubled teens where they spent days hiking or in group therapy and their nights in a tent alone with their boots confiscated so they couldn’t run away。 After the tortures of the camp, she is sent to a school in Virgini Overall Impression: Wow, this memoir reads like fiction, to the point that I keep forgetting that is really happened。 Stolen is a memoir written by Elizabeth Gilpin about her “troubled teen” years。 Elizabeth was torn out of bed in the middle of the night and brought to a camp for troubled teens where they spent days hiking or in group therapy and their nights in a tent alone with their boots confiscated so they couldn’t run away。 After the tortures of the camp, she is sent to a school in Virginia to continue the “work” done by the camp。I’m not even fully sure how to review this book, as it is about someone’s life, but to say this book is shocking is an understatement。 How anyone could think that programs like this are helpful is unfathomable。 Most of the kids in these programs were not criminals or addicts but unruly kids that parents didn’t know what else to do。 I’m not kidding when I say that I had to keep reminding myself that it is not fiction。 I’m sure Elizabeth’s story is not all that unique either, as this happened all over the country with many stories still untold。Go read this book, it is truly eye opening。 。。。more

Sara D

Thank you NetGalley & Grand Central Publishing for my gifted eARC in exchange for an honest review。I could not put this book down。 I am not even sure I read what I read。 What a terrifying, heartbreaking, eye opening book。 I wanted to scream, cry, shout at characters and along with the author。 And to think this is a memoir。 Holy cakes。 I have so much respect for Elizabeth and her story。 It reminds you, that you have no idea what anyone is going through。 We all fight demons and monsters。 But for s Thank you NetGalley & Grand Central Publishing for my gifted eARC in exchange for an honest review。I could not put this book down。 I am not even sure I read what I read。 What a terrifying, heartbreaking, eye opening book。 I wanted to scream, cry, shout at characters and along with the author。 And to think this is a memoir。 Holy cakes。 I have so much respect for Elizabeth and her story。 It reminds you, that you have no idea what anyone is going through。 We all fight demons and monsters。 But for some, those demons and monsters are our teachers, schools, peers and parents。 And that reminder is so completely terrifying。 So, do I recommend this book? A thousand times yes。 Elizabeth deserves to have her story heard。 。。。more

Kelly Long

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing this book in exchange for an honest review。Wow, what an eye opener this book is。 This "therapeutic" boarding school was absolutely appalling in their treatment of these poor teenagers。 I can see that it did way more harm than good and really messed up the futures of a lot of these teens。 This book took a lot of courage to write。 I hope it has served as a beneficial part of Elizabeth Gilpin's healing。 Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing this book in exchange for an honest review。Wow, what an eye opener this book is。 This "therapeutic" boarding school was absolutely appalling in their treatment of these poor teenagers。 I can see that it did way more harm than good and really messed up the futures of a lot of these teens。 This book took a lot of courage to write。 I hope it has served as a beneficial part of Elizabeth Gilpin's healing。 。。。more

Alexis Stankewitz

*Thank you Grand Central Publishing, Elizabeth Gilpin and Netgalley for giving me a E-ARC of "Stolen" in exchange for an honest review。*This was a tough time read, but something everyone needs to read。 Reading about Elizabeth experience at Carlbrook was really eye-opening for me, and horrific because as a teen , I had to be placed in a Residential Treatment Facility , (thankfully not a place similar to Calbrook)。 Thank you again to Ms。 Gilpin especially for writing this book。 *Thank you Grand Central Publishing, Elizabeth Gilpin and Netgalley for giving me a E-ARC of "Stolen" in exchange for an honest review。*This was a tough time read, but something everyone needs to read。 Reading about Elizabeth experience at Carlbrook was really eye-opening for me, and horrific because as a teen , I had to be placed in a Residential Treatment Facility , (thankfully not a place similar to Calbrook)。 Thank you again to Ms。 Gilpin especially for writing this book。 。。。more

Mel

Stolen: A Memoir by Elizabeth Gilpin tells the story of Elizabeth Gilpin’s traumatic experiences at a supposedly “therapeutic” boarding school and the lasting impact this had on her。This book was an incredibly difficult read but one that is extremely important。 Through this book, Gilpin is able to shed light on the abuse and trauma perpetuated by schools such as the one she attended who claim that what they are doing is in the best interests of the students。 The accounts of events that happened Stolen: A Memoir by Elizabeth Gilpin tells the story of Elizabeth Gilpin’s traumatic experiences at a supposedly “therapeutic” boarding school and the lasting impact this had on her。This book was an incredibly difficult read but one that is extremely important。 Through this book, Gilpin is able to shed light on the abuse and trauma perpetuated by schools such as the one she attended who claim that what they are doing is in the best interests of the students。 The accounts of events that happened at the school while Gilpin was there are shocking and horrifying and really show why these institutions need to be called out, dismantled and I’d even go so far as to say criminalized。I really liked Gilpin’s writing style。 It is incredibly personal, poignant and moving which makes the book one that stays with you long after you’ve finished reading。Finally, the stories and experiences that Gilpin shares in this book are incredibly personal and in some ways could have been re-traumatizing for her。 However, she recognizes that this is a very important story to tell and I truly hope that her bravery and courage in telling this story brings about real change in regards to these institutions。I would highly recommend this book to anyone looking for an extremely personal and important yet difficult memoir which explores the dangers of “therapeutic” boarding schools and why they must be dismantled。Stolen: A Memoir by Elizabeth Gilpin will be released by Grand Central Publishing on July 20th 2021。 。。。more

Katy Alice

Update: Originally, I rated this memoir 3 stars。 I read an uncorrected ARC and felt there were some style and pacing issues that kept me from giving it a higher rating。 But nearly a week later I still find myself thinking about it and discussing it, which doesn’t happen often for me with memoirs。 I think Gilpin’s story will help a lot of people feel seen and will shine a light on a system that needs to be exposed。 So, ultimately, taking these things into consideration I believe it does deserve a Update: Originally, I rated this memoir 3 stars。 I read an uncorrected ARC and felt there were some style and pacing issues that kept me from giving it a higher rating。 But nearly a week later I still find myself thinking about it and discussing it, which doesn’t happen often for me with memoirs。 I think Gilpin’s story will help a lot of people feel seen and will shine a light on a system that needs to be exposed。 So, ultimately, taking these things into consideration I believe it does deserve a full star upgrade to a 4 star rating。 。。。more